Comments on: Should I cancel my wedding or honeymoon because of Coronavirus (COVID-19)? https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/should-i-cancel-my-wedding-or-honeymoon-because-of-coronavirus-covid-19-not-necessarily/ Wedding, honeymoon, and cash gift tips and etiquette Tue, 28 Nov 2023 09:44:02 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.5 By: Roberta WP del Lillà Bianco https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/should-i-cancel-my-wedding-or-honeymoon-because-of-coronavirus-covid-19-not-necessarily/#comment-177130 Sat, 02 May 2020 18:34:39 +0000 https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/?p=7313#comment-177130 Don’t cancel the date of your wedding day, first step: rescheduled <3
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By: Sara Margulis https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/should-i-cancel-my-wedding-or-honeymoon-because-of-coronavirus-covid-19-not-necessarily/#comment-170911 Fri, 24 Apr 2020 19:46:07 +0000 https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/?p=7313#comment-170911 Hi Claire,

Thanks for your comment. You can simply mail or e-mail a postponement notice to the guests invited to the later reception, letting them know the event was rescheduled.

“We want to make sure our wedding celebration is safe for all, so we have decided to reschedule the big day. We will be married at-home during quarantine, and can’t wait to celebrate with you once it’s safe to gather on [new date]. ”

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By: Kailey https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/should-i-cancel-my-wedding-or-honeymoon-because-of-coronavirus-covid-19-not-necessarily/#comment-165394 Tue, 14 Apr 2020 16:07:33 +0000 https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/?p=7313#comment-165394 Our Wedding is August 1st. I loved seeing that this date “made the cut in your opinion” to keep planning that it will happen. I’m still very worried it won’t happen, but our plan is to wait until June to send out invitations, and see what the world is like then. My second worry is that we have our Honeymoon booked for the next day Aug 2nd to Greece. I guess this is considered “less than 6 months.” What are your thoughts about keeping the honeymoon or not? We’re worried about losing money from the hotels already booked as we did not get travel insurance, or refundable rates. I

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By: Claire https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/should-i-cancel-my-wedding-or-honeymoon-because-of-coronavirus-covid-19-not-necessarily/#comment-158308 Fri, 03 Apr 2020 12:05:35 +0000 https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/?p=7313#comment-158308 Our wedding is May 9. Almost all of our guests are local and the remaining are within driving distance. We’ve decided to go forward with our date and have a much smaller ceremony and reception at a later date. How can I go about relaying this information to those that have already rsvp’d and everyone else I’ve invited? Any suggestions?

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By: Cindi https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/should-i-cancel-my-wedding-or-honeymoon-because-of-coronavirus-covid-19-not-necessarily/#comment-156853 Tue, 31 Mar 2020 18:49:53 +0000 https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/?p=7313#comment-156853 Hi! Our wedding is scheduled for May 16th, our hotel for the wedding night has already cancelled, the Riverboat where we are scheduled to get married on, then a dinner cruise for our guests is closed for now. As crazy as this sounds I’m fine with going for a plan B. However I’m looking for unique ideas for a quarantine wedding, just the 2 of us fine with me. We are in our mid 50’s but still feel like we did in our early 20’s when we first dated. Reunited 35 years later we now know we are destined to be together. We backpack, hike, and love waterfalls. We were engaged at the top of our favorite waterfall. SOS for wedding ideas!

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By: Rob https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/should-i-cancel-my-wedding-or-honeymoon-because-of-coronavirus-covid-19-not-necessarily/#comment-149798 Thu, 19 Mar 2020 01:49:58 +0000 https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/?p=7313#comment-149798 We have postponed our wedding that was supposed to occur on April 4. Most of our family was travelling and all of our family and the venue are in areas with significant outbreak. We started talking to vendors two weeks ago about postponing and all allowed us to. We were looking at October but we ultimately decided we need to wait until next year. The wedding venue is a place with fire danger in the fall so between the current crisis and the next, I just could not commit to a date with that level of uncertainty. We were fortunate in that we got out of our hotel block contract completely with no penalty (Marriott and it was offered to us enthusiastically) and our venue has refunded our money in full. We will approach these vendors next year but I did not want to carry a significant financial liability for another year with the present uncertainty. We are going to ask the other vendors to allow us to reschedule next year and will carry the loss if they refuse.

Here are my additional tips: Before you consider going ahead with your wedding if it is scheduled between now and July, ask yourself if you want to deal with this stress on your wedding. You should assume guests will back out, you may need to prohibit touching or dancing, and that the circumstances are changing daily. I would recommend trying to reschedule no sonner than October or getting your money back and starting fresh. Getting your money back is important because the wedding industry will experience great turmoil over the next few months and if your vendor closes up shop, you may lose the money AND not have the wedding. I am not providing legal advice and you should always consult a licensed attorney, but look at your contracts and carefully review the impossibility or force majeure provisions. You may have a justification that allows you to terminate the contract with no penalty and possibly recover your money. You need to act fast if this is important to you because this is the time where these kinds of clauses are possible (e.g. while there are binding legal obligations to shelter-in-place, quarantine, etc.). Getting out of the hotel contract was essential for us because the new rates the hotel wanted for the date we were considering were almost $200 more per night and I do not want to ask my guests to pay significantly more.

I’m sorry to all my fellow wedding planners out there, this was not our year. However, I am confident we will all someday be able to enjoy the weddings we have been planning.

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By: Sara Margulis https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/should-i-cancel-my-wedding-or-honeymoon-because-of-coronavirus-covid-19-not-necessarily/#comment-149786 Thu, 19 Mar 2020 00:29:47 +0000 https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/?p=7313#comment-149786 Beautifully said, Autumn. What maters most is our loved ones. xo

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By: Sara Margulis https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/should-i-cancel-my-wedding-or-honeymoon-because-of-coronavirus-covid-19-not-necessarily/#comment-149785 Thu, 19 Mar 2020 00:29:21 +0000 https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/?p=7313#comment-149785 wow, that’s so heartwarming to hear. It is stressful for many wedding vendors who are small businesses. Good luck to you and enjoy that November wedding. 🙂

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By: Sara Margulis https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/should-i-cancel-my-wedding-or-honeymoon-because-of-coronavirus-covid-19-not-necessarily/#comment-149784 Thu, 19 Mar 2020 00:28:26 +0000 https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/?p=7313#comment-149784 I love when decisions are made for us! What else will you do differently now that you have more time?

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By: Sara Margulis https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/should-i-cancel-my-wedding-or-honeymoon-because-of-coronavirus-covid-19-not-necessarily/#comment-149782 Thu, 19 Mar 2020 00:27:43 +0000 https://www.honeyfund.com/blog/?p=7313#comment-149782 Have you called your wedding vendors?

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