You’ve said “I do” and celebrated your love with family and friends – yay!  After the whirlwind of your wedding day, you might be overwhelmed just thinking about all of those post-wedding must-dos. To help you navigate this transitional phase, we’ve put together a checklist to guide you in prioritizing these tasks, while recognizing that not everything is essential and you should prioritize what is best for you as a couple.

Check Your Honeyfund

While you can redeem the funds in your Honeyfund Wallet at any point before or after your big day, it’s a practical and exciting task to tackle early. If your guests contributed to your Honeyfund, consider converting your thoughtful gifts into cash—enjoy the flexibility of transferring it to PayPal, Venmo, or gift cards* (available to US couples only) without paying any fees. This way, you can make the most of your generous gifts.

Settle Outstanding Payments and Tip Vendors

This is a top priority. Your wedding vendors played a crucial role in making your day special. Take the time to settle any outstanding payments and consider showing your appreciation by tipping them for their hard work. There’s a bit of a gray area when it comes to tipping wedding vendors, so this is totally up to you—nonetheless, it’s a thoughtful gesture! 

Decide What to Do with Your Dress

Your wedding dress is a symbol of your special day, and deciding what to do with it can be a difficult decision. But you have options! You can preserve it, donate it, sell it, or even have it redesigned into a new piece of clothing. 

Preservation: If you opt to preserve it, most experts recommend getting this done as soon as possible after your wedding to prevent stains from setting.

Selling: If you don’t have any use for your dress sitting in your house as a memento, consider selling it instead. Consider listing it on Facebook marketplace, Poshmark or bringing it to a local consignment store. Just make sure to clean and repair any damages as soon as possible after your wedding and before listing your dress to maximize its resale value.

Donating: Donating your wedding dress can be a great way to give you dress a second life, especially if you didn’t break the bank when you bought it. Organizations like Brides Across America accept wedding dress donations they gift to military and first responder wives! 

Repurposing: Some brides get creative and repurpose their wedding dress into something new and meaningful, like christening gowns for their children, quilts, or even pieces of art. You could work with a talented seamstress or artisan to transform your dress into a unique keepsake. Or have it altered and dyed to turn it into a dress you wear at future formal occasions, like friends’ weddings or your own anniversary! 

Do Something with Your Bouquet

If you’re feeling sentimental about your wedding bouquet, there are several creative ways to preserve those beautiful blooms, turning them into lasting keepsakes. If you’ve saved your bouquet after the wedding, visit this task a month or two after your big day. Frame Bouquet Preservation: Transform your bouquet into a stunning piece of art that you can cherish forever. Seek out artists who specialize in framing your pressed flowers. This method beautifully displays your bouquet in a shadow box or frame, preserving the essence of your special day.

Resin Coasters: For a functional and decorative keepsake, consider having your wedding flowers turned into resin coasters or a decorated tray. Many talented artists on platforms like Etsy offer this service, giving your  flowers a practical purpose in your daily life.

Watercolor Painting: If you’re willing to part with the physical flowers but still want a heartfelt memento, a custom watercolor painting is a thoughtful alternative. This artistic representation can capture the essence and colors of your bouquet, creating a piece of art that will remind you of your wedding day for years to come.

Consider Merging Finances

While money might not be the most romantic topic, it is crucial for building a strong foundation in your relationship. Managing finances as a couple can be both beneficial and challenging, but it’s a conversation worth having early on. Combining finances with your partner can simplify managing household expenses and create a common budget while providing insights into each other’s financial habits. However, it’s equally crucial to openly communicate about spending, debts, and financial standing. 

While a joint bank account is a practical step, it doesn’t mean merging all assets is necessary. Some may need to stay separate, and this decision is often made through prenuptial agreements, especially when safeguarding family assets is a concern. In the end, the key to a successful financial partnership lies in transparent and honest communication, ensuring that money doesn’t become a source of conflict in your relationship.

Finish Your Registry

According to wedding etiquette, your guests have up to a year to choose a gift from your registry. Whether your Honeyfund was full of unique items or you didn’t have enough time to build it out as much as you’d like, it’s worthwhile to revisit your registry and expand it. Ensure that there’s a diverse selection of items at various price points to accommodate your guests. Don’t forget that every gift you receive converts into cash in your Honeyfund Wallet, which can be seamlessly transferred to PayPal, Venmo, or loaded onto a variety of gift cards with zero fees. This way, you can truly make the most of your thoughtful gifts

Consider Changing Your Name

Getting married marks a significant life change, and one decision you might be considering is whether to change your last name. It’s a personal choice that can take some time, but with careful planning, it can be a smoother process. Before diving into the name change process, have an open discussion with your partner and decide whether you want to change your last name or keep your current one. This is a personal decision, and doesn’t need to be done right away after the wedding, so choose what feels right for you.If you do decide to change your name, consider using a service like Easy Name Change to streamline the process.

Write Thank You Notes

Expressing gratitude is a must. Write heartfelt thank you notes to everyone who attended your wedding and gave you gifts within three months of your big day. Tip: do this early to get it done and crossed off your list. A handwritten note goes a long way in showing your appreciation.

Order Wedding Photos

To hold on to the magic of your wedding day, order wedding photos while the memories are still fresh. But here’s a tip: be mindful of the expenses when ordering prints; think about where you’ll display them, ensuring each photo has a special place in your heart and home.

You can also get imaginative with your photos, turning them into wall art, personalized thank-you cards, or even a custom calendar. Another trendy idea is to create a beautiful coffee table book to elegantly display your photos somewhere in plain sight.

Plan Your Honeymoon

It’s never too late to take a honeymoon. So if you haven’t had the chance to take your honeymoon yet, now’s the perfect time to start planning. Even if it’s a short weekend getaway, a honeymoon offers a wonderful opportunity to unwind and celebrate the beginning of your life together. But it’s more than just a trip; it’s a crucial step in building a successful marriage. Studies show that couples who go on a honeymoon tend to experience higher marital satisfaction in the long run. So, choose a destination that both of you will love and get ready to pack your bags for an adventure that promises unforgettable moments and a stronger bond for your future together

Set Goals for Your Marriage

After the wedding excitement, take time for a heart-to-heart with your partner about your dreams and goals as a couple. Share your individual dreams for your life together, whether it’s travel, family, or career achievements. Discuss both short-term and long-term goals, like saving for a dream vacation or planning for retirement, and create a practical plan with manageable steps and a timeline. But don’t forget to add some fun!  Plan adventures and trips that you can both look forward to in this new chapter as newlyweds.

The period following your wedding is a special time, marked by love, excitement, and new beginnings. These post-wedding tasks will help you transition smoothly into married life, allowing you to hold onto the memories of your big day while you build a beautiful future together.

Co-Authored by ChatGPT.

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“Double Your Honeyfund” Sweepstakes Terms

Double Your Honeyfund Sweepstakes

Beginning September 6, 2023, Honeyfund (“Administrator”) will match the funds in a user’s Honeyfund Wallet, up to a maximum of five thousand US dollars ($5,000) for one (1) winning Honeyfund couple.

NO PURCHASE IS NECESSARY TO ENTER OR WIN. A PURCHASE WILL NOT INCREASE YOUR CHANCES OF WINNING. ALL FEDERAL, STATE, LOCAL, AND MUNICIPAL LAWS AND REGULATIONS APPLY. VOID WHERE PROHIBITED. THIS SWEEPSTAKES IS IN NO WAY SPONSORED, ENDORSED, OR ADMINISTERED BY, OR ASSOCIATED WITH INSTAGRAM.

The Double Your Honeyfund Sweepstakes (Sweepstakes) is open to legal residents of the US who are at least eighteen (18) years old at the time of entry. Employees of Honeyfund and other companies associated with the promotion of the Sweepstakes, and their respective parents, subsidiaries, affiliates and advertising and promotion agencies as well as the immediate family (spouse, parents, siblings, and children) and household members of each such employee are not eligible.

The Sweepstakes is administered by Honeyfund.com, Inc. (˜Administrator’ and ‘Sponsor’), located at 2519 McMullen Booth Rd N, Ste 510-260, Clearwater, FL 33761.

The Double Your Honeyfund Sweepstakes consists of one Grand Prize which consists of:

Up to $5,000 USD deposited into one Honeyfund account holder’s Honeyfund Wallet

Participation in the Sweepstakes constitutes full and unconditional agreement to and acceptance of these Official Rules and the decisions of the Administrator, which are final and binding. Winning a prize is contingent upon being compliant with these Official Rules and fulfilling all other requirements set forth herein. The Sweepstakes entry period begins on September 6, 2023 at 9:01 am EDT and ends on September 20, 2023 at 11:59 pm EDT (the Sweepstakes Period). Entries that are submitted before or after the Sweepstakes Period will be disqualified.

To constitute a valid entry, participants must have completed all of 1) created a valid account on Honeyfund.com before the entry period ends on September 20, 2023 at 11:59 pm EDT and 2) must have selected “Honeyfund Wallet” as their payment method in their payment settings and 3) received valid gifts from persons other than themselves into their Honeyfund wallet. Honeyfund accounts with zero gifts received in terms of number of gifts and/or dollars will not qualify. 

The winner will receive an amount of US dollars, matching the amount of valid gift funds (up to $5,000) they have received to their Honeyfund Wallet from valid gift givers other than themself or their partner, as of September 20, 2023 11:59 pm EDT.  The matching amount is subject to a maximum of five thousand US dollars ($5,000).

Any account suspected of being fraudulent, or any entry deemed to be in violation of these terms, as determined by the Administrator in its sole discretion, will be disqualified. 

Participants will gain entries into the Sweepstakes during the Sweepstakes Period using the following methods:

1. Complete one or more tasks on the Gleam entry link

ALTERNATE METHOD: MAIL

Participants without Internet access can mail written entries to 2519 N McMullen Booth Rd, Ste 510-260, Clearwater, FL 33761. Attn: Double Your Honeyfund Sweepstakes.. Entries must include the Entrant’s name, phone number and mailing address.

No purchase necessary. One Gleam account per entrant. Multiple entries per Gleam account are possible.

All entries become the property of the Administrator and will not be acknowledged or returned. Entrant grants the Administrator permission to use the entries for promotional purposes, with or without any legally required permission of the participants or entrants.

On or about September 25, 2023, the Administrator will select one winner at random from among all eligible entries received throughout the entry period. The odds of being selected depend on the number of entries received. The Administrator will attempt to notify the potential Sweepstakes winner via email  on or about  September 25, 2023. If the potential winner does not reply or cannot be contacted within five (5) days after the date of the first attempt to contact him/her, the Administrator may select an alternate potential winner in his/her place at random from the remaining non-winning, eligible entries. Only three (3) alternate prize winners will be selected, after which the prize will remain un-awarded. The potential winner(s) will be notified by social media direct message. The potential Prize winner (parent/legal guardian if a minor in his/her state of residence) will be required to complete, electronically sign and submit a Declaration of Compliance within five (5) days of the date notice or attempted notice is sent, in order to claim his/her prize. If a potential winner cannot be contacted, or fails to submit the Declaration of Compliance within the required time period (if applicable), or prize is returned as undeliverable, potential winner forfeits prize.

If the potential winner is at least 18 but still considered a minor in his/her jurisdiction of residence, Administrator reserves the right to award the prize in the name of his/her parent or legal guardian, who will be required to sign the Declaration of Compliance on the potential winner’s behalf and fulfill any other requirements imposed on winner set forth herein. 

Potential winner must continue to comply with all terms and conditions of these Official Rules, and winning is contingent upon fulfilling all requirements. In the event that a potential winner is disqualified for any reason, Administrator will award the applicable prize to an alternate winner from among all remaining eligible entries. Only three (3) alternate drawings will be held, after which the prize will remain un-awarded. All potential winners from Canada will be required to answer a time-limited skill-testing question correctly without any assistance to be eligible to receive a prize, or such prize will be forfeited.

The Prize will be fulfilled approximately 7 business days after the conclusion of the Sweepstakes at which time the winner will receive the funds deposited into their Honeyfund account.  If the winner forfeits the prize after it has been fulfilled, the prize will not be re-awarded. The prize is not transferable and must be accepted as awarded.

In the event that the operation, security, or administration or fulfillment of the Sweepstakes is impaired in any way for any reason, including, but not limited to fraud, virus, bug, worm, unauthorized human intervention or other technical problem, or in the event the Sweepstakes is unable to run as planned for any other reason including natural disasters or acts reasonably beyond the control of the Administrator, as determined by Administrator in its sole discretion, the Administrator may, in its sole discretion, either (a) suspend the Sweepstakes to address the impairment and then resume the Sweepstakes in a manner that best conforms to the spirit of these Official Rules or (b) terminate the Sweepstakes and, in the event of termination, award the prize at random from among the eligible, non-suspect entries received up to the time of the impairment. If the prize cannot be fulfilled due to the above impairment, the prize will be canceled.

The Administrator reserves the right in its sole discretion to disqualify any individual it finds to be tampering with the entry process or the operation of the Sweepstakes or to be acting in violation of these Official Rules or in an unsportsmanlike or disruptive manner. Any attempt by any person to damage the website or undermine the legitimate operation of theSweepstakes may be a violation of criminal and civil law, and, should such an attempt be made, the Administrator reserves the right to seek damages (including attorney’s fees) and any other remedies from any such person to the fullest extent permitted by law. Failure by the Administrator to enforce any provision of these Official Rules shall not constitute a waiver of that provision.

By participating in the Sweepstakes, entrants agree to indemnify, defend, release and hold harmless the Administrator, and each of their respective parents, subsidiaries, affiliates, advertising and promotion agencies, other companies associated with the Sweepstakes, and each of their respective officers, directors, employees, shareholders, representatives, and agents (the Released Parties) from and against any claim or cause of action arising out of participation in the Sweepstakes or receipt or use of the prize (including any travel or activity related thereto), including, but not limited to: (a) any technical errors associated with the Sweepstakes,, including lost, interrupted or unavailable Internet Service Provider (ISP), network, server, wireless service provider, or other connections, availability or accessibility or miscommunications or failed computer, satellite, telephone, cellular tower or cable transmissions, lines, or technical failure or jumbled, scrambled, delayed, or misdirected transmissions or computer hardware or software malfunctions, failures or difficulties; (b) unauthorized human intervention in the Sweepstakes, (c) mechanical, network, electronic, computer, human, printing or typographical errors; (d)application downloads, (e) any other errors or problems in connection with the Sweepstakes, including, without limitation, errors that may occur in the administration of the Sweepstakes, the announcement of the winner, the cancellation or postponement of the event and/or the flyover, if applicable, the incorrect downloading of the application, the processing of entries application downloads or in any Sweepstakes-related materials; or (f) injury, death, losses or damages of any kind, to persons or property which may be caused, directly or indirectly, in whole or in part, from entrants participation in the Sweepstakes or acceptance, receipt or misuse of the prize (including any travel or activity related thereto). Entrant further agrees that in any cause of action, the Released Parties liability will be limited to the cost of entering and participating in the Sweepstakes,, and in no event shall the entrant be entitled to receive attorney’s fees. Released Parties are also not responsible for any incorrect or inaccurate information, whether caused by site users, tampering, hacking, or by any equipment or programming associated with or utilized in the Sweepstakes. Entrant waives the right to claim any damages whatsoever, including, but not limited to, punitive, consequential, direct, or indirect damages. Administrator is not responsible for any prize that is not timely taken or properly redeemed by any winner, or for any prize that is lost, damaged or stolen during or after shipping.

Dispute Resolution: To the fullest extent permitted by law, by participating in the Sweepstakes, you agree that any dispute arising out of or relating to these Official Rules, your participation in the Sweepstakes, or the awarding, receipt, use, and/or misuse of the prize, shall be resolved individually, without resort to any form of class action, and exclusively by final and binding arbitration under the rules of the American Arbitration Association and held at the AAA regional office nearest the Administrator; the Federal Arbitration Act shall govern the interpretation, enforcement and all proceedings at such arbitration; and judgment upon such arbitration award may be entered in any court having jurisdiction. Under no circumstances will you be permitted to obtain awards for, and you hereby waive all rights to claim, punitive, incidental or consequential damages, or any other damages, including attorneys’ fees, other than your actual out-of-pocket expenses (i.e., costs associated with participating in the Sweepstakes), and you further waive all rights to have damages multiplied or increased. All issues and questions concerning the construction, validity, interpretation and enforceability of these Official Rules, or the rights and obligations of entrants and Administrator in connection with the Sweepstakes, shall be governed by, and construed in accordance with, the substantive laws of the State of Florida, USA, without regard to its conflicts of law principles. If any provision of these Official Rules is found to be unlawful, void or for any reason unenforceable, then that provision shall be deemed severable from these Official Rules and shall not affect the validity and enforceability of any remaining provisions.

Participation in this sweepstakes is subject to Administrator’s privacy policy.

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Planning a honeymoon can be one of the most exciting parts of wedding planning. Many couples dream of a honeymoon filled with adventure, relaxation, and romance, but the costs associated with planning a dreamy getaway might make the trip feel unattainable. That’s where a honeymoon fund like Honeyfund comes in. In recent years, honeymoon funds have become an increasingly popular option for couples looking to get the most out of their honeymoon without breaking the bank. In fact, nearly 25% of couples who got married in 2021 registered for a honeymoon or other cash-based gift like a home down payment. 

If you’re feeling unsure about how to explain the concept of a honeymoon fund or what to say to ask for contributions, don’t worry. We’re here to help! We’ll go over the basics of what a honeymoon fund is and why it’s a great option for many couples. We’ll also give you some tips on how to share your registry and communicate with your guests in a way that feels authentic and comfortable for you.

And gift givers love honeymoon funds. We always hear from couples’ friends and family “I wish I had a honeymoon fund when I got married!” Still not sure? We have found that couples who honeymoon and travel regularly are more likely to be happily married 10+ years later. Your friends and family are coming to your wedding to support you as a couple, so they will want to help make your honeymoon happen!

Image credits: Plume and Stone

What is a honeymoon fund? 

A honeymoon fund, like Honeyfund, is a modern take on traditional gift registries. Instead of asking for physical gifts, you create a registry for your honeymoon expenses, and your guests can contribute to it. The beauty of a honeymoon fund is that all the contributions turn into cash, giving you the freedom to spend the money as you see fit. Whether you want to use it for your honeymoon expenses or save it for a future goal, you decide! You read that right: you create a registry for your honeymoon, but you receive funds that can be used for your honeymoon expenses or any other savings goals.

Your honeymoon fund registry  can include everything from airfare to accommodations to activities. Instead of registering for physical gifts, you’re asking your guests to contribute to a shared experience that you’ll remember for a lifetime. A Honeyfund registry allows couples to have the honeymoon of their dreams without worrying about the financial burden. Plus, honeymoon funds can be a great option for couples who already have all the physical items they need for their home.

Ways to share your registry

Sharing your honeymoon fund with your guests is just as important as making the registry! In fact, our research has shown that couples who share their Honeyfund page with their friends and family are more than twice as likely to receive contributions. Here are some tips on how to share it effectively:

In your wedding invitations:

– Include a small card with your shower and wedding invitations that mentions your honeymoon fund and provides a link or a QR code to it. Print customized registry cards from your Honeyfund account.

– Add your registry details, including your Honeyfund URL or a QR code, printed on the back of your invitations. 

– If you’re going the paperless route, include a hyperlink to your Honeyfund registry at the bottom of your digital invites.

– Consider including the link to your Honeyfund when you follow up with guests via email for RSVP reminders.

On your wedding website:

– If you’re using a wedding website, make sure you include the link to your Honeyfund page in addition to any other registries you choose to create. 

– Make sure to include a personal message that explains why you’ve chosen a honeymoon fund and how the contributions will be used.

– Add photos or videos of your destination to help your guests visualize your trip.

– Don’t have a wedding website? You can also use your Honeyfund page as your full wedding website. Simply add all your relevant wedding details to your Honeyfund page, including ceremony, reception, guest accommodations and more. 

On social media:

– Share a post on your social media accounts that mentions your Honeyfund and provides a link to it.

– Make sure to keep the message light and fun.

– Share photos of your engagement or your destination to create excitement among your friends and family.

Word of mouth:

– Bring up your honeymoon fund when talking to friends and family about your wedding.

– Explain why you’ve chosen a Honeyfund and how the contributions will be used.

– Encourage them to share the information with other wedding guests who may be interested in contributing towards your registry.

At your wedding:

– Set up a sign at your wedding reception with a QR code that guests can scan to view your honeymoon registry. This can be placed near the gift table or near the guest book.

– During your wedding speech, take a moment to thank your guests for their attendance and thank them for their contributions to  your honeymoon registry. Explain why you chose this option and how much it means to you.

And don’t forget thank you cards! After you return from your honeymoon, be sure to send thank you notes to all who contributed to yourHoneyfund. You can even share details or pictures of what honeymoon experiences the guest contributed towards. Your friends and family will love to see how their contributions led to your lifelong memories!

When to share your registry

When it comes to timing, it’s best to share your registry when you send out your wedding invitations, typically around 3 to 4 months before your big day. This will give you plenty of time to accumulate contributions to get as many honeymoon expenses covered as you can. However, if you have a short engagement or are planning a last-minute honeymoon, you can always share it closer to the wedding. This is a great option, because guests don’t have to worry about ordering anything that has to get shipped. And it’s always great to remind guests of your honeymoon fund as it gets closer to your wedding day – typically 4-7 days before your wedding, included in any last-minute reminder communications you’re texting or e-mailing. 

How to communicate your honeymoon fund to guests

Now that you’ve created your Honeyfund registry and know when and where you’re going to share it, it’s time to think about how to communicate your honeymoon fund to your guests. To start, make it personal. Explain why a honeymoon is important to you and how much their contribution means to you and your partner. Instead of asking guests to give you cash for your honeymoon, a Honeyfund is a great way to let guests know exactly what their contribution will go towards, whether it’s a specific experience or activity on your honeymoon or the overall trip cost. 

Secondly, use polite language and provide clear instructions on how to contribute. Thank your guests in advance for their support and let them know that their contribution will make a difference and make sure you’re sharing a link to your honeymoon fund or let guests know how they can contribute directly.

Lastly, remember to be open to questions and to let guests know that any contribution is appreciated. Some guests—especially older friends and family—may not be familiar with the concept of a honeymoon fund, so be prepared to explain it to them and address any concerns they may have.

Examples of How To Word Your Honeymoon Fund Request

If you’re struggling with how to word your request for contributions towards your honeymoon fund, we’ve drafted up some examples to help you get started. Simply copy, paste and tweak the following messages for your invites and wedding website.

On your invites:

“Your presence is gift enough. But if you choose to give a gift, scan the QR code below to view our registry.”

“In lieu of traditional gifts, we kindly ask for contributions to our honeymoon fund.”

“Join us in creating unforgettable memories on our honeymoon. Check out our Honeyfund registry here.”

“As we start our new life together, we dream of a once-in-a-lifetime honeymoon. Help us make it a reality by contributing to our Honeyfund registry.”

“Celebrate our love with a contribution to our honeymoon fund. Visit our Honeyfund registry and help us make unforgettable memories.”

“Your support means the world to us. Help us create a dream honeymoon by contributing to our Honeyfund registry today.”

“Make our honeymoon unforgettable by contributing to our Honeyfund registry. Click here to view and help us create lifelong memories.”

“We would be honored if you would consider contributing towards our memorable honeymoon. View our Honeyfund registry here.” 

“We are registered at: Honeyfund [+ any other store registry names]

On your wedding website:

“As we start our journey together, we dream of a romantic honeymoon that we’ll cherish forever. We would be so grateful for your help in making it a reality.” 

“Our love story has brought us to this moment, and we can’t wait to start our next chapter with a dream honeymoon. We appreciate any contribution that will make it possible.”

“We’ve been blessed with all that we need, so we’re asking for your help to create unforgettable memories on our honeymoon. We’re excited to share our adventures with you!”

“We’re looking forward to starting our married life with an amazing honeymoon experience. We’re grateful for your love and support as we make this dream come true.”

While we appreciate traditional registry gifts, we have decided to ask for contributions to our honeymoon instead. This trip will be an unforgettable experience for us as newlyweds, and we would love for you to be a part of it!

“First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes…the honeymoon! Any amount, big or small. To our Honeyfund will help us make our honeymoon a trip of a lifetime, filled with unforgettable memories.

We know that everyone has different circumstances, and we don’t want anyone to feel obligated to contribute. However, if you are looking for a way to show your love and support, we would be grateful for any contribution you can make towards our honeymoon.

With the right etiquette and clear communication, you can easily share your honeymoon fund with guests and make your dream honeymoon a reality. Honeyfund simplifies the process of creating, sharing, and managing your honeymoon fund, so you can focus on enjoying your dream honeymoon and making memories that will last a lifetime.

Create your Honeymoon registry now.

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Congratulations on your engagement! Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, but with a 12-month engagement, you have plenty of time to create a wedding and honeymoon that perfectly reflects your and your partner’s unique style and preferences. Don’t let the wedding industry, social media, or friends and family pressure you into feeling like you have to follow so-called wedding planning norms or averages. Instead, focus on your unique vision, your authentic budget, and what’s important to you as a couple. Whether you have 12 months, 6 months, or just 3 months, our wedding planning checklist will help you stay on track without feeling stressed. Here’s a comprehensive wedding timeline and checklist to plan your dream wedding, hassle-free. 

12 Months Out:

• Determine your realistic wedding budget 
• Sit down with your partner to get on the same page about your shared vision for the big day and prioritize what’s most important to you to include 
• Research and apply for a credit card with great travel benefits—put wedding expenses on this card and rack up points for your honeymoon!
• Visit potential venues
• Start researching vendors
• Draft guest list
• Choose your wedding party
• Join the Honeyfund Facebook group to get wedding inspo, ask questions, and get advice from other couples planning their weddings
• Consider signing up for a travel or hotel credit card to earn rewards on wedding expenses and enjoy perks like discounted accommodations and exclusive benefits for a memorable honeymoon experience.

11 Months Out:

• Finalize date & venue
• Start booking vendors
• Start looking at wedding attire
• Discuss who you want to officiate your wedding 
• Schedule tastings for wedding cake and caterers
• Create a wedding website—write your greeting, upload a photo, and include any relevant information for your guests
• Hire a wedding planner (if desired)

10 Months Out:

• Book hotel room blocks & transportation
• Finalize guest list 
• Order Save the Dates , if using printed
• Have an engagement photo session (if desired) 
• Book your wedding photographer
• Start collecting guests’ contact information—you can keep track of all of this in your Honeyfund account! 

9 Months Out:

• Purchase wedding rings & consider purchasing ring insurance
• Schedule hair and makeup trials, if desired, or start browsing Pinterest for some easy styles to do yourself
• Book your DJ or wedding band. If you’d rather save in this area, try making your own Spotify playlist and using a Bluetooth speaker or the venue’s sound system
• Plan and book any pre-wedding festivities (engagement party, bridal shower, etc.)
• Book your officiant 

8 Months Out:

• Publish your wedding website & create your Honeyfund registry
• Mail or e-mail  Save the Dates
• Order your invitation samples
• Brainstorm a wedding hashtag
• Begin thinking about a honeymoon destination
• Pick out bridesmaids and groomsmen attire

6-7 Months Out:

• Finalize all vendor hires and sign vendor contracts 
• Book rehearsal dinner venue
• Consider wedding guest attire for your big day 
• Add more items to your Honeyfund registry to give your guests plenty of items to choose from 
• Book florist and finalize flowers
• Confirm honeymoon plans and book travel
• Finalize seating chart and create place cards
• Book wedding cake baker
• Book hair and makeup
• Order wedding invitations

4-5 Months Out:

• Plan menu
• Decide on bachelorette and bachelor party details
• Book wedding transportation for your guests
• Renew your passport if you’re traveling internationally for your wedding or honeymoon and consider purchasing TSA Precheck 
• Check in with yourself and treat yourself to a little self-care
• Brainstorm how you’ll include your pet on your wedding day

2-3 Months Out:

• Wedding Showers & bachelor/bachelorette parties
• Send formal wedding invitations
• Share your Honeyfund registry with your guests — consider including it with your invitations or sharing it another way.
• Schedule final fittings for you and bridal parties’ dresses/suits/attire
• Confirm details with vendors and make any final payments
• Meet with your officiant 
• Confirm playlists and music with your wedding DJ or band
• Work on DIY projects for your wedding decor 
• Finalize details for the rehearsal dinner and any other pre-wedding events
• Start collecting RSVPs 
• Create seating chart

1 Month Out:

• Obtain marriage license
• Finalize attire & alterations
• Create a timeline for the wedding day and share it with vendors and the bridal party
• Follow up with any guests who have not RSVP’d
• Confirm final details with vendors and make any necessary changes
• Provide final headcount to the caterer and other vendors
• Write vows
• Double-check your Honeyfund registry to make sure you’ve added enough experiences and items to your registry
• Order thank you cards 
• Final dress/suit fitting 
• Order clothing and necessities for your honeymoon

2 Weeks Out:

• Create a shot list for your photographer
• Touch-base with all vendors

1 Week Out:

• Pack overnight bags for your wedding and/or honeymoon

Wedding Day:

• Get married
• Celebrate!

After the wedding:

• Transfer the funds from your Honeyfund Wallet to your Venmo or PayPal, completely fee-free (hello, Honeymoon funds!)
• Enjoy your honeymoon and start your new life together as a married couple!
• Send thank-you notes to guests and post reviews of any vendors who really went above and beyond
• Change your legal name, if applicable 
• Use the remaining funds from your Honeyfund registry to pay off any wedding-related credit card charges
• Order wedding photos 

No matter where you are in the wedding planning process, it’s always a good time to create a fee-free honeymoon registry.

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When it comes to wedding planning, it’s all about the details.  Even a seemingly small detail like your Honeyfund page URL can make a difference in your wedding guests’ experience. Customizing your Honeyfund ensures your friends and family  are more easily able to give you the experiences and items you need to make your dream honeymoon happen. While many couples simply use the default URL provided when creating an account, customizing your Honeyfund page URL can not only add a personal touch, it can make it easier for your wedding guests.

Why Should You Create a Wedding Hashtag?

A wedding hashtag can serve a few purposes, but first and foremost, it makes it easy for guests to share photos and memories of the big day on social media. It will also organize all of the photos that your guests take on your big day—just search for the hashtag and see all the pictures and messages from the day in one place.

Additionally, your wedding hashtag can be used in your Honeyfund page URL. A personalized URL is easier to remember, making it simple for guests to find your registry and purchase gifts. Plus, it can add a touch of personality and make the registry feel more like a reflection of you and your partner.

Customizing your wedding registry URL with your hashtag will also make it easier to share with guests. Creating a shorter, simpler URL makes it easier to include on save-the-date cards, invitations, and other wedding-related materials.

Tips for Creating a Wedding Hashtag

If you’re having trouble coming up with a wedding hashtag, here are a few tips to get you started:

– Keep it short and sweet. A long, complicated hashtag will be harder for guests to remember and type correctly when they’re searching for your Honeyfund page or adding to their captions on social media.

– Consider including your names or initials in your hashtag. This will make it more personal and memorable.

– Avoid using too many h​​yphens and numbers.

– Check your spelling.

– Add a word or phrase that is meaningful to you as a couple. For example, if you and your partner love to travel, you might include “wanderlust” or your honeymoon destination in your hashtag.

– Consider nicknames, puns or words unique to you and your partner!

– Don’t be afraid to get creative! Your wedding is a chance to celebrate your unique love story, so have fun with it.

Still having some writer’s block? Use the hashtag generator in your Honeyfund account. Use even consider using an AI generator, like ChatGPT.

How to Customize Your Wedding Registry URL

We’re all about making things easy for you, and customizing your registry URL is no exception! Once you’ve decided on your wedding hashtag, here are a few steps to help you include it in your custom Honeyfund URL.

– Log in to your Honeyfund account and navigate to the Share tab on your page.

– Click “Reset” and proceed to create a new URL. (Note: you’ll want to customize the URL before you’ve shared it with your guest or printed it on any of your wedding-related materials!) 

– Enter your wedding hashtag into the box or hit the “refresh” button and we’ll generate some ideas for you!

– Once you’ve decided on one that you love, hit “save” to lock it in.

Now you’re well on your way to a big day that’s extra special, and filled with details as unique as you!

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When most people think of a wedding registry, items like towels and fine china are what come to mind. If you love being in the kitchen and cooking a homemade meal, then consider using your registry to take your kitchen skills, and gadgets, up a notch.

It’s time to get your registry started and upgrade your kitchen with our Kitchen Starter Registry!

Cooking Basics

If the kitchen tends to be the place you spend the most time in your house, you may already own many of these items. But don’t overlook the basics. Think of your registry as an opportunity to double-check that you’ve covered the basics and to upgrade or replace some of the older items you currently have.

• Space Saving Cookware set
• Food storage
• Non-stick cookware set
• Kitchen Tool Set
• Bakeware Set
• Blender
• Knife Block
• Baking Sheets
• Mixing Bowls
• Hand Mixer
• Electric Kettle

Executive Chef Status

This is where the fun starts. Now that you know you have the basics, let’s get you some of the fancier gadgets that will help you live out your chef dreams.

• Programmable Crockpot
• Indoor Grill and Air Fryer
• Juicer
• Dutch Oven
• KitchenAid Mixer
• Frittata and Omelet Maker
• Food Vacuum Sealer

Just For Fun

The products above were strictly for cooking delicious dishes. But how about adding some extra fun to your next get-together? Or upping your at-home bartender or barista game?

• Herb Garden
• Milk Frother
• Soda Maker
• Ice Cream Maker
• Cocktail Maker
• Fondue Set

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Fancy Finds for Your Home Registry

Picking a wedding registry is tough. Picking items to go on it – seemingly impossible. One of our favorite stores has a great registry that can be linked directly to your Honeyfund, and the store is chock-full of drool-worthy housewares. Bed Bath & Beyond covers all the bases needed to upgrade your home, from cookware to vacuums to window shades, plus registry consultants who can help you figure out what to select. 

If you’re thinking about creating a home registry, this is your sign to do it! Here’s the lowdown on how to make a home registry.

Take It from the Experts

The registry experts at Bed Bath and Beyond let us in on the top products that couples have been adding to their lists. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by all the options, this list of popular items is the perfect way to get inspired as you start your registry.

1. iRobot® Roomba® e5 (5150) Wi-Fi® Connected Robot Vacuum
2. KitchenAid® Artisan® 5 qt. Stand Mixer
3. Calphalon® Premier Space Saving Hard Anodized Nonstick 10-Piece Cookware Set
4. Dyson V11 Animal Cord-Free Stick Vacuum
5. OXO Good Grips® POP Food Storage Container Collection
6. KitchenAid® 3-Piece Pasta Roller Attachment Set
7. All-Clad B1 Nonstick Hard Anodized 13-Piece Cookware Set
8. Ninja® Foodi 8-qt. 9-in-1 Deluxe XL Pressure Cooker & Air Fryer
9. Rubbermaid® Brilliance 22-piece Food Storage Container Set
10. Ninja® Foodi 5-in-1 Indoor Grill with 4-Quart Air Fryer
11. Luigi Bormioli Crescendo SON.hyx® Toasting Flutes (Set of 4)
12. Nespresso® by Breville Vertuo Next Premium Coffee Machine with Aeroccino in Black

Current Registry Perks

Bed Bath & Beyond includes several free perks for all couples who have a registry. Here’s what you should be taking advantage of:

• Free shipping on orders over $39
• Completion discount of 20% on all items left on the registry after your wedding date (meaning, after your wedding, any items left our registry that your guests didn’t purchase for you, you can buy for yourself at a 20% discount!)
• Bonus wedding gifts from brands like Cuisinart, Le Creuset, and Kate Spade

Registering the Couple

To start your registry, head to the Wedding section of Bed Bath & Beyond’s website. Once there, click on Start Your Registry.

Next, you’ll follow their instructional form and fill out your and your partner’s information. This ensures your guests can find your registry and know where to send your gifts. Make sure to double-check for any misspellings or errors in your address before moving on to the next step.

With your basic information added, take a few minutes to make your registry yours. Don’t forget to include your favorite picture of the two of you. Now comes the fun part — register to your heart’s content.

And don’t forget to link it to your Honeyfund!

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We can already tell that 2021 and 2022 are looking to be record celebration years, with all the postponed weddings and events sliding onto our calendars.  We’ve also seen a huge variety of festivities crop up on social media and wedding blogs — it’s been nothing short of amazing! Whether you’ve delayed your whole wedding or re-envisioned it as a “Wedding-After” Party or an “Anniversary Reception,” the etiquette surrounding gift-giving and registry can seem like completely uncharted territory. Don’t worry—we can help you navigate with our registry advice. Keep reading, and we’ll address some of the common questions couples are asking.

Will guests still want to give gifts?

The short answer is yes! Plenty of guests will likely want to give gifts to celebrate your marriage and support you.

The longer answer has a lot of factors. The traditional custom of gift-giving allows your loved ones to show their love and support in a tangible way. Many people are aching for ways to show love right now, and a wedding—or anniversary—gift is an easy way to do it. Other guests may not be at a place financially where they can give right now, or they may be confused about the etiquette. It’s okay; this is a new situation for everyone.

Our best advice is to make the option to give available with a registry. Let your guests feel empowered to decide what and how to give. Registries provide them with the security of knowing what you would find useful without having to guess or ask awkwardly.

What’s the right way to give guests the option to give?

Instead of assuming guests won’t want to give any gifts—and to save yourself the headache of being asked tons of times—we recommend adding a honeyfund link to your wedding website. Don’t have a wedding website? Luckily, your honeyfund can do the trick!

Some guests, especially older family members, may consider it rude to directly mention the registry in your invite. But you can get around that by printing the web address of your honeyfund or wedding website on an insert and including it with the invitation.  That way they have the info if they want to give a gift.

You can also always use the age-old tactic of “word of mouth.” Let your immediate family and close friends know that it’s okay to spread the word. If you still have a wedding shower coming up, that’s a great avenue for your inner circle to help let your other guests know important details, like how to find your registry.

What about guests who already gave gifts?

Some guests may have already given gifts around your original wedding date, and they may choose to give again or not. Your guests’ decisions will likely depend on their social cultures surrounding weddings. Some communities expect to give a wedding shower gift, plus money for the wedding. Others only plan to give one gift. It’s 100% up to your guests whether they decide to gift a second time. Some people may surprise you!

What should I include on my honeyfund?

Honeymoons are still happening! The travel industry is gearing up for more adventures and excitement than ever, which means you’ll likely be able to get some fantastic deals on great experiences. Even if you aren’t able to take your honeymoon for a while, guests love knowing they’re giving you the gift of unforgettable memories. Plus, traveling together is one of the most fun ways to build up and strengthen your relationship.

If you’ve already planned for your honeymoon because of the non-traditional timeline, you can always choose something else. Consider including gift cards or funds that let friends and family members invest in your future together. Here are some gift card ideas that guests have loved on other couples’ honeyfunds:

• Helping you build your best home together, courtesy of a home improvement store near you
• Investing in your love together with romantic date nights at your favorite restaurants
• Upgrading household items with major brands that make daily life easier and more enjoyable

How do I create a Honeyfund registry for my postponed event?

Honeyfund has all the tools you need to make your registry easy to use—for both you and your guests. We’ll walk you through every step of the process. And you can always find registry advice, support and tips on our blog!

Need more advice?

If you’re seeking more advice about how to deal with your postponed or modified event, we’ve got you covered. Check out these helpful Honeyfund articles: Gifts for Canceled and Postponed Weddings: What’s the etiquette?, Wedding Guest Etiquette for a Covid-Safe Wedding, Should I cancel my wedding or honeymoon because of Coronavirus? 

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Registry Items We Recommend When You’re Dreaming of a Honeymoon

When it comes to registering for wedding gifts, it can be confusing as to what you should add. If you’re like most of our couples, you really want to go on an epic honeymoon. And that can bring a whole new level of confusion – especially when you do want some household items.

The perfect combo (in our opinion) is to make your Honeyfund your main registry and then link a Bed, Bath & Beyond registry for your small list of household items. Read through the end for a $100 gift in MyFunds Rewards from Bed, Bath & Beyond..

The Essential Household Gift List

Whether you’ve been living together prior to marriage or not, your household could likely use a few upgrades that make for perfect wedding gifts (especially for those guests who are more old-fashioned). This is why we love Bed, Bath & Beyond. Their inventory is stocked perfectly for newly married couples.

A few things we suggest adding that you might not have thought of are hosting supplies/party items, longevity items, and kitchen upgrades. Here are the items the experts at Bed, Bath & Beyond recommend:

• Bar Items
• Serving platters/bowls
• Vitamix blender
• High-end knives
• Kitchenaid Mixer

Keeping the honeymoon alive is something we believe is important for all couples. So why not bring the honeymoon home with you? Here are some items the experts recommend registering for:

• Luxury sheets
• Spa-quality towels and robes
• Home décor that resembles your destination

Need help choosing? Check out what other couples are loving here. You can also use their new Ship or Swap feature to make sure you make the home of your dreams.

Ready? Earn $100 When You Sign Up

Anyone who signs up for a Bed, Bath & Beyond registry between 1/1/2021-3/31/21 is eligble to receive $100 towards their account. Once you’ve shared your registry with your guests and they purchase more than $500 in gifts, you’ll automatically get $100 in your MyFunds. You can track your gift total and your awards here in your account.

And don’t forget to link it to your Honeyfund!

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We’ve got the lowdown on how it works, but the basic idea is this: When you create your registry and decide to use Ship or Swap, you have even more control over what you receive as gifts.  Read to the end for a special offer for new registry sign ups.

Enable Ship or Swap

First thing’s first, once your Bed, Bath & Beyond registry is created, you’ll want to navigate to your registry view. From there, click on Edit Registry Settings and scroll down to Ship or Swap.

Here, you’ll click Enable.

Registry and Receive Gifts

Before sharing your registry, you’ll want to add all the items you’d like. (Don’t be afraid to add big-ticket items, the group gift features has you covered.) Here’s what couples are loving for some inspiration.

Once you’ve added your registry items and linked your new Bed Bath & Beyond Registry to your Honeyfund, it’s time to sit back and wait. Guests will begin to pick out gifts and go through the purchase process as they normally would.

Gifts Become MyFunds

If the guest chose to ship directly to you when they went through the purchase process, those monies are then loaded directly into your My Funds account. The amount will include applicable discounts, taxes and shipping costs. (Note: Any gift purchased in and carried away from a store, ordered online for store pickup, or ordered online and shipped to an address other than the registrant’s is not eligible for Ship or Swap.)

Go Shopping 

This is where the fun comes in. Once the guest has completed the purchase process and the money have been loaded to your My Funds account, you can choose to purchase the gift that the money was originally given for. Or you can use the money towards another gift instead.

Once you’ve selected which items you’d like to use your My Funds credits on, add to cart and check out whenever you’re ready for them to ship. The best thing about My Funds is that they NEVER expire!

You should know that if you decide to opt out of the service after opting in, future gifts will ship directly to you once they’re purchased.

Ready? Earn $100 When You Sign Up

Anyone who signs up for a Bed, Bath & Beyond registry between 1/1/2021-3/31/21 is eligble to receive $100 towards their account. Once you’ve shared your registry with your guests and they purchase more than $500 in gifts, you’ll automatically get $100 in your MyFunds. You can track your gift total and your awards here in your account.

And don’t forget to link it to your Honeyfund!

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